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A Woman’s Thought

It’s so nice to take leave once in a while and have a quiet moment when no one except Eni, my domestic worker is at home. While I was having my lunch quietly, the 2 roses on the red metal cabinet caught my attention. One pink, one red – my husband, Goh bought for me, … Continue reading

吴若权

这两个星期,我阅读了吴若权的三个著作。我不认识他,可是看了“打造自已的幸福 COM”就会想看他其他著作。 他真是一个多才多艺的才子。吴若权说他不是靠灵感写作的人,而是习惯于观察。观察人群的经验,常给他感动。他的每个故事都是日常生活周遭发生的事情,好真实。我很欣赏他独特的风格,他应该是个有智慧有内涵的人吧!作者简介说他是个聪明的AB型的水瓶男子。台湾人好信星座血型哦! 以下是“活出生命能量 – Q得不一样”每个单元的开场白。写得真好。 感动,让生命更精彩 是眼底那一颗忍了好久,终于还是滑落的泪珠。是嘴角那一朵因于了解,像春风般绽放的微笑。让日覆一日的平凡人生,有了不寻常的意义。即便是朝如青丝,暮成白雪,也成为心中的惦记….. 真诚,让心灵更富有 渴望过星星、盼望过钻石:追逐过金银、贪恋过繁华:拥有的快乐和失去的感伤、编织出人生这匹锦缎。等到韶光皆灭、盼到繁花尽落、跪到万灯俱枯:锦缎风采退去,一如最原始的粗布,还能闪耀于其间的,只有真心。 用心,让家庭更幸福 是谁在窗口留了一盏灯?是谁让灯下依然飘着咖啡的馀温?那扇门在熟悉的节奏中,开了又关上,瞬间停止了心的忐忑。让所有的流浪报答等候,让所有的祝福沉淀为信任:在这个小小如魔术箱的窝里、蕴藏千金难买的心灵财富。 关怀,让男人更成熟 当火柴盒变成汽车、捉迷藏变成求职版:当粗沉的嗓音叫不动整个宇宙、宽阔的肩膀挑不起全世界:高傲的外表与脆弱的内在,成为两性战争中动乱的根源:没有玩过芭比娃娃的男人,需要的绝对不只是威而钢。 修炼,让身心更和谐 还记得第一次学会骑脚踏车那一天吗?阳光晴好,轻风像母亲的怀抱:身体摇摇晃晃,心神颠颠倒倒:勇敢试过几次之后,地球终于乖乖回到自转的轴心。就让原本扶在后座的那双手,很自然地放开。 体贴,让人情更温柔 有一种喧哗,可以将整个宇宙淹没- 它的名字叫做‘不懂’:有一种声音,可以把整个天地叫醒- 它的名字叫做“了解”:将心比心,以心换心,不必退一步,只要转个身,彼此就能海阔天空。 学习,让自己更出色 让今天的自己,和昨天不一样,让明天的自己,比今天更勇敢坚强:永远保有一颗谦虚、好奇的心、以理想为帆、以良知为灯塔:在知识的大河中,做一个不随波逐流的人,航向生命的港湾。 好欣赏吴若权的好文笔和宽广明锐的思路见解。

I date my son

Hey! I went to movie with Dominique on Friday, 19 February. The movie: Percy Jackson & The Lightning Thief. Dating my son is not a new concept to me. I learnt from a mother who attended the workshop at school. As Robin and Dominique are adolescents, parenting style has to modified in order to bridge … Continue reading

Maristic

I attended “Maristic”, a concert by Maris Alumni Wind Ensemble. Robin and Dominique are Marists but not the band members. Nevertheless, as parent of the Marists, I am fortunate to be an audience at Esplanade Concert Hall to watch this marvellous performance by the schoolmates of Robin and Dominique. The performance was a joint effort … Continue reading

Why sweep the road only when VIP is coming?

21 February – Sunday, 10am 15 minutes ago, I shook hand with the MP for my constituency, Dr Fatimah Latiff. MP is Member of Parliament, representing the people in the Parliament. She was here to give Chinese New Year greetings to residents. No one told me but I know she’s coming. Not because  I have … Continue reading

If I Had My Child to Raise Over Again

If I Had My Child to Raise Over Again by Diane Loomans If I had my child to raise all over again, I’d do less correcting, and more connecting, I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I would care to know less and know to care more. I’d take more … Continue reading